Monday, April 12, 2010

Why can't some guys take no for an answer?

You block their e-mail address


they invite you in tagged or yuwie or other profile account


he leaves a YIM message " I can see you! You can't hide from me!" Block it! Then missed calls you then continue to text though you already said "Sorry, it's not going to work, don't text, don't call" I can't change cellphone number all my contacts (old and new) knows my recent number





why can't they just accept the girl is not interested. Hey if a person doesn't like me I won't insist, some guys are simply persistent when clearly a girl is not interested. Sigh! Why can't they bother someone else. It's like there's only one girl in the planet.

Why can't some guys take no for an answer?
Those are called desperate guys. If you gave me a clear answer of you didn't want to be with me then I would move on and obsess over you. Some guys are sick in the head what can I say. You are right, there are millions of other females out there and he is only trying to get you...why? He needs to get the hint and you are pretty obvious.
Reply:Ahaha, he's stalker persistent. Completely and utterly ignore him, don't ever message him back about anything never answer phone calls. If you happen to know any of his close friends (that you are close enough to) talk to them and be blunt ask them to ask him to leave you the crap alone.





Should things become too out of hand to the point that you are really scared for your life (im sure it's not to that point...atleast I hope :P ) you can get a restraining order or something.





Now I'm sure this isn't too severe of a situation, he's just young, persistent, and horny. In fact if you two were friends, you MIGHT be able to salvage some kind of friendship out of it in the end once this passes, but that's another story, another question, a different road. But for now ignore him completely, don't even open his messages, if one pops up from him, click it away as if it was a silly pop up ad (because in essence that's all it is)
Reply:my advice: enjoy while it lasts
Reply:this person is called a stalker, they exist both among females AND males. dont generalize.
Reply:these guys have low self esteem and they are idiots, if a girl says no to me, i think i would earn her respect and love by dropping it. such guys get scared easily if you tell them that you will get a stalking order against them though, good luck!
Reply:He thinks your playing 'hard-to-get'. Guys are just hard-headed like that.
Reply:"NO" means keep trying or get another bottle of wine.
Reply:they are idiots thats why.


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